For those of you suffering emotionally

The ancient Greeks believed the heart was the seat of emotions. Thats not at all surprising when you consider how our heart rates respond to feelings of fear, pain, anger, love, etc. So for those of you whose lives have been suddenly affected by the need for a pacemaker and are struggling to get back to a normal existence, you need to understand that treating the mind is just as important as treating the body. For some who are mentally "tough" it is a relatively quick and easy transition. For many it is far more difficult. Cardioi's and surgons are famous for not having the time or inclination to provide adequate emotional support beyond a quick pep talk and perhaps a script for an anxiety or sleep aid. PTSD gets lots of attention these days, especially with our vets. But a very similar condition can occur after a sudden life changing event like a cardiac problem requiring PMs or surgeries, etc. Please google the symptoms for depression. Some depression after our kind of events is totally normal. But if you feel way way down for a prolonged time, then you need to do something about it. My first degree was in psychology, and I have had work experience in the field, but I am not a qualified practitioner in any way. Get help for your emotional pain and suffering. There are support groups in most communities that are free. Your insurance plan should cover a visit to a professional mental health practitioner. Your Pastor or Priest may have training as well. The important thing is to recognize that you are not coping well and then see someone who can help. My family GP was very helpful to me. My symptoms were prolonged but relatively mild compared to what I frquently see here. The point is don't suffer alone. Help is available and you should seek it out.


7 Comments

thank you

by judyblue - 2014-01-13 02:01:00

I am having a hard time reading your post without crying. it has been 4 months since my pm and my life is no where near as full and active as it was before. Depression is being treated with drugs, but cannot access therapy through insurance. I love to run, but everytime I do I pay with pain in my pacemaker site. any emotional stress causes it to hurt too. I am going to go to an electrophysiologist in February and it is going to cost me a lot out of pocket, but I don't think my cardio sees me as anything other than a pacemaker. thank you again, I am trying not to give up hope of feeling better.

Don't forget

by Theknotguy - 2014-01-13 04:01:23

Don't forget therapy dogs. I have two, Dakota and Bailey. We let them lick out empty peanut butter jars. Didn't stop laughing for half an hour. Dogs liked the peanut butter too.

Did a 2.4 mile walk with them. They curled up laying on top of me for their afternoon nap. Everyone had a good day.

Theknotguy

Judy

by BillMFl - 2014-01-13 04:01:56

Look for a support group in your community. Many hospitals have them free of charge. If not, google search for your local mental health agency and ask them about support groups. They are usually free and lead by a trained pro and are completely confidential. It can really help to meet, talk and share support with others. Time and meds do heal, but fellowship can greatly speed the process.

The Greek's were right!

by Marie12 - 2014-01-13 07:01:55

I was not an emotional person prior to my heart attack and ICD implant. I truly believe heart and head are connected. For the first few months, I could cry at the drop of a hat and then get so angry at something stupid. I still struggle with the changes to my life and the "why me" but it's getting better and finally making friends with my friend.

Bill

by jeanlancour - 2014-01-13 10:01:42

Nicely said, Thank you.

Interesting

by KAG - 2014-01-13 11:01:51

I believe the mind is a powerful medical tool, we just don't know how to access it's capabilities yet.

My primary Dr surprised me when I first saw him after my PM implant by his first question. He asked me how I was doing emotionally with getting the PM. Then moved to the physical. My view of him went up a bit because of that. Fortunately I was able to adjust to my little buddy fairly quickly.

Good advice for those who need help
Kathy

Well Said

by Casper - 2014-01-16 04:01:25

Hi Bill,

Thanks for sharing, I really love this site!!

Casper

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