sexual dysfunction and cheating after pacemaker.

hi everyone..my husband had a pacemaker inserted in january 2014 and he is on beta blockers for life..
after his pacemaker insertion he has no interest in sex and even if i try he cant even get hard anymore..it has been a yr and there is no sex i read that betablockers do give u decrease sexual drive and erectile dysfunction..he is refusing to tell his doctor about it..
the worse part is i found out now he has been having an affair behind my back and he is having sex with the other lady..i found out that he stops his meds up to 2weeks when he is seeing her and i am assuming he even takes viagra to get it to work with her..he says she means nuthin..i dont knw how to save this relationship or how to save him and help him..

3 Comments

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by Enrique - 2014-11-04 05:11:40

I think that what you need is a marriage counsellor.

Hang on a minute ..

by IAN MC - 2014-11-04 11:11:55

There are two sides to every story. Before deciding who is to blame what is his take on the situation ?

( I don't really want to know incidentally ! )

Ian

Nothing excuses cheating...

by Kaity - 2015-01-15 04:01:19

My opinion is as follows, I dont feel its ever necessary to CHEAT!! no matter what the reason, why? because there are other options like>> LEAVING!!.I feel the least a spouse can do is have some respect and sit down and explain whats changed and if nothings changed and your just not into your significant other, have the respect and dignity to at least be truthful about it all. After you've been truthful, then leave with whom ever you want. I've always told my husband, "If you ever feel that we've grown apart or simply feel that you've fallen out of love with me, just be open and honest and tell me, we can work it out and go our seperate ways, theres no need to cheat, i deserve some respect, after 20yrs of marriage", my husband agrees and feels the same way. If I ever find myself thinking about cheating in my life, im obviously not happy. I will have respect for my husband and what we once had, enough to be truthful about it and break it off before i go cheating. I dont understand the need to cheat....people just have to grow some and be honest instead of running behind peoples back. Some people want to take advantage and enjoy best of both worlds and doesnt necessarily have to be a reason, other than theyre just idiots, no excuse for cheating, thats why god made us with a mouth to speak with. Talk to your significant other at the least about how you feel, end it, and then lay around with the whole town if you want....just my opinion :)

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