Thank you parents!
- by kayak.eric
- 2014-04-09 12:04:36
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To all parents of kids with ICDs and pacemakers:
Thanks for your love and support of your child.
I am a 22 years old with Long QT and an ICD. I was diagnosed when I was 13 or 14 and got my ICD when I was 15. It was hell. I was very active. Before all this happened, I kayaked, biked, ran, snowboarded, and was generally energetic (hyper) and active like any young male. It killed me when I was first diagnosed. Initially, because of my diagnosis, doctors basically told me I couldn't do anything. I couldn't swim, I couldn't bike, couldn't run. Nothing physical. That summer was miserable. My parents had to deal with a pubescent male that wasn't allowed to do any of the things that made him happy...
But they stuck with me and got things worked out and after about a year, I was able to go kayaking and swimming and all the things I loved again. The month before my ICD was put in, I went on a week long canoe trip and a week long kayak trip.
6 years later, I am just as active and about to graduate college and. Looking back on my life as I am about to enter the 'real world', I can see for the first time just how much my parents did for me. I don't think I thanked them enough at the time.
I just want to say thank you to all parents who are dealing with all the stress and frustration of the process on behalf of myself and all kids going through it. Even though it may not always seem like it, we love you and appreciate everything you are doing for us!
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by Mirandauf - 2014-04-30 12:04:30
Your post hit home to me! So much so I signed up to be a member.
In the past two months I found out I have long qt and I passed it to two of my children. Along with moving to another state, I had my device put in and then my son had his. He is 10. He is one of the most active little boys and now he has been told he can never play basketball on a team and has so many limitations. It is so hard to watch. I pray he feels the same when he is 20.
Four questions for you. We're you able to play any sports in high school? What do you think helped you the most with the condition? Was there anything you would suggest to me to help my son by doing or not doing? Did one of your parents have the device as we'll?
Sorry. So overwhelmed and new to everything. I just want to do things right for my son and daughter.
Thanks!
Answers to your worries
by kayak.eric - 2014-08-17 05:08:46
Mirandauf,
Sorry I didn't respond sooner, life got hectic with graduation and all that associated stuff.
To answer your questions, I had the option to play non contact sports in high school after I got all my heart stuff figured out. However, by that time I had moved to different things and occupied myself with kayaking in summers and snowboarding in winter.
Nobody in my family has diagnosed Long QT besides myself, so it was definitely uncharted waters for all of us. That being said, from my perspective, the best advice I can give you is to find what makes you/ your children happy, and do it. Even if there is some (reasonable) risk involved, like snowboarding and mountain biking, I personally believe it is worth it. As my parents tell people who get worried when they find out about my heart stuff, if something happens, at least it happened while I was doing something that makes me happy. Its better to be happy with some risk than to be upset and safe.
I hope this helps some.
One final piece of advice:
I know it can seem overwhelming and big and scary, just take it day by day and problem by problem (kinda like how my mom got me to clean my room when I was young :)
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by Grateful Heart - 2014-04-09 03:04:53
Not everyone achieves wisdom in their lifetime.
Judging from your words, I'm sure you thanked your parents. I'm also sure when they saw you back to your active life.....as a parent, that was thanks enough!
You said it beautifully here, so may I suggest you show your parents your post.
I'm sure they are very proud of you.
Congratulations on your graduation and much success in all you do. My youngest is also about to graduate college. Boy how time flies.
Grateful Heart