A brieg period of happines

I know this is off topic isnt even related to ICD-s or heart problems..But i just felt the urge to share with you guys..A girl ive known for 3 years.. we have always been friends..but i had different feelings for her.. And yesterday after having a drink together and driving her home we kissed. My dreams came true..My heart was skipping beats like crazy..My smile wasnt coming off my face.. I stayed up all night thinking about her.. and now.. about 15 minutes ago she sent me a message saying that her feelings havent changed and that she just wants me as a friend.. I told her that i understand and that it is ok.. But deep down inside my heart and soul are weeping..And even though i put a smile on my face.. Im empty and sad on the inside..

4 Comments

No heart broken..

by Duke999 - 2013-09-11 01:09:38

Hi Fiki, I'm sorry to hear about your story. I don't have good advice for you to win her heart, but I just want to tell you that if possible, you should not pull all nighter to think about her because lack of sleep or irregular pattern of sleeping would cause more episodes of arrhythmia. I know it's easier said than done when you're somewhat heart broken (no pun intended). Take good care of yourself. Stress and lack of sleep is not good for your heart.
I wish you well.

Duke

Fiki...................

by Tattoo Man - 2013-09-11 04:09:20


.......................it seems to me that sometimes what is needed is a good old-fashioned Man Hug....



There..you have it..

The path of love is so often a complicated one, and yesterday showed you just that...but..lets look at the positives.

As a friend she was kind enough to be honest....that took some courage on her part.

She was kind enough to be honest quickly..

You may well have a closer friendship than before..a real, true friend will not leave you..maybe keep a little distance for a while so that things can get back .

My guess is that she would like things to go back to before,..but if she is smart ,will not go into the miserable world of regret.

Fiki..you have not lost a good friend..you have the potential to have a more special good friend.

Arrange a meeting in a really public place and make it for lunch 1 till 2..take it easy..maybe ask her to bring a mate.

Keep cool.

Don't act all edgy but don't stop treating her like a lady.

Do not ask her about the kiss..my guess is that she is still getting her head round it too.

In time you may be able to talk this through..

NO APOLOGIES

Be the regular Fiki...that's what she wants....

At least for the time being..

Best wishes.

Tattoo Man

Hi Fiki

by Casper - 2013-09-13 11:09:13

It's good to hear from you again, but I'm sorry you're feeling a bit down.

Tattoo Man is right on target, take it slowly, I especially like the idea of meeting together for lunch in a public surrounding. Keep it cool.

You sound like a great guy from your previoius posts, and I wish you well.

Let us know how it goes.

Casper

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by Fiki - 2013-09-16 03:09:08

Thx for all your replies.. I talked to her and told her that for a while we shouldn see each other or talk to each other beacuse i cant get her out of my mind still .. but soon i know i will be of calm mind and i will be able to continue our friendship..

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