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Have you ever felt like you're being left out? Well, I know that felling very well. One day in school, I was assinged a video project and one of the girls that I worked with told me to pick out the music. So whiile I was doing that, the girl pushed me out the way and she picked out the music. I dealt with this very carefullly because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. So, I backed out and let the other two girls to the project by themselves.

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Never let yourself be left out

by Janet - 2008-01-17 05:01:30

Hmmm------ Sounds like she did not give a second thought to your feelings - pushing you out of the way.

Reactions do not have to be hurtful. Just genuinely ask a question. What's going on? If you get a hurtful response ask 'how do you suppose that makes me feel? Was that your intention?

You will be surprised how many times folks are genuinely taken aback by their own behavior once they have to think about it. And if they are not - that is shame on them not shame on you.

Look after others as you would want to be looked after yourself - but never ever shy away from those that would hurt you - always ask them to account for themselves.

LEFT OUT

by BOB 1 - 2008-01-17 06:01:30

I know the left out feeling well. I just got it trying to figure out why you posted that message here.

Me too! Ouch!

by pacergirl - 2008-01-17 11:01:52


My goodness.... now you are not alone because I feel left out right along with you and BOB 1!

Hang in there.... life does get better...
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by uvagershwin - 2008-01-20 03:01:09

Francis, I am truly sorry Beth and I hurt your feelings! SORRY SORRY SORRY SORRY! Because sometimes sorry is the only thing you can say. I love you as a friend and we have to remain friends. UVA right!? Ok, I know we were bosy, but I just didn't like the drums! Personally, I felt the ragtime had a random, offbeat effect, so please don't take it personally! Nothing can ruin ourfriendship, so please forgive me! :(

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