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This has been a sad week for pacemakerclub members in regard to losing members. I also experienced an unexpected loss when my husband of 44 years collapsed and suddenly died today. There are no words to describe the pain of this. I was the one with the heart problems...not him. I guess we never know what lies ahead for us.

Please hug those close to you and express your love for them. And don't take anything for granted!!!

Love you,
Suze

23 Comments

Stay strong

by searchingwoman - 2009-03-27 02:03:30

Suze,
I'm sending you a hug from my heart to yours. May God be with you giving you the strength, peace, and the love of family and friends.
Donna

Blessings

by michelleskater - 2009-03-27 03:03:31

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I could not imagine how that must feel. My prayers to you.

So Sorry

by SMITTY - 2009-03-27 04:03:54

Hi Suze,

I'm so sorry to learn of your great loss. Please accept my sincerest condolences

My wish for you is that---

Until you two meet again
May you be blessed with
sweet memories of the
love you have enjoyed.

Bob

Im so sorry Suze

by walkerd - 2009-03-27 05:03:07

Really sorry for your loss Suze. You are so right dont take anything for granted, dont put off until tommorrow for tommorrow may not come and maybe you or someone you love will be called to our maker. A Big hug for Suze I truly am sorry for your loss.

dave

So sorry

by sputnick - 2009-03-27 05:03:51

So very sorry to hear your sad news. I will be thinking of you and hoping your happy memories of your time together will comfort you.
Love Jan x

Blessings, Suze

by Vicens - 2009-03-27 07:03:50

I'm very sorry to hear your sad news. Take comfort in The Lord.
Love.

God Bless

by betsey46 - 2009-03-27 08:03:07

Hello,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss..and can relate to your pain. My mom died last May of pancreatic cancer. She was sick only a short while and never told anyone. My dad on the otherhand had all the health issues..including a pacemaker. They were married 53 years. My mother was also 13 years younger than my dad. Mom devoted her life to taking care of my dad and when she died..none of us were expecting it. I'm now taking care of my father...but he has decided not to have his battery replaced in his pacemaker. I'm honoring his decision and looking to just keeping him comfortable. What I was trying to say is....you are right in saying you never know what will happen in life. Things can change in a blink of an eye. The death of my mom..has taught me so much. I now look at spring this year as a new beginning...and am appreciating things much more. My prayers are w/ you, Suze. If you ever just want to talk..my email is: oozus43@yahoo.com Friends can help very much at a time like this....Love Betsey

Condolences

by Wannabe - 2009-03-27 08:03:21

My poor dear Suze - I am writing simply to let you know that I'm thinking of you at this sad time and my thoughts and prayers are with you entirely. All love, Sheila

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by pacergirl - 2009-03-27 08:03:26

Tears for you and for your loss. It seems so hard to stop the tears.... My heart goes out to you, I don't know what to say. You have my deepest heartfelt sympathies.

Please continue to reach out to your friends here... we will be here when you need us.

(((((((Suze)))))) holding you up with love, support and most of all prayers.

Pacergirl

My sincere condolences

by Smart Redd - 2009-03-27 09:03:18

I feel so sorry for your loss. Most of my family members have passed and it is always sad. Still, I fear the loss of my soul mate far more.

I can only imagine how you feel at this time. My prayers and heartfelt wishes go with you through this difficult journey. Hugs!

Love

Thank you

by Suze - 2009-03-27 10:03:03

Thanks to everyone for the prayers and support. It means so much to me. I can't express it with mere words.

I'm doing ok but am still numb.

Love you guys,
Suze

so sorry

by renee14150 - 2009-03-27 10:03:03

So sorry for your lose you are in my thoughts and prayers

God bless you, Suze

by aldeer - 2009-03-27 10:03:21

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, with love aldeer

suze

by jessie - 2009-03-27 10:03:45

i am just so sorry. i am here if you need to talk. you will be in my prayers. i hope you have lots of family support as well. please know i am here if not. what a terrible shock to you. please take care of yourself now and reach out hiugs maureen

I can sure understand

by ElectricFrank - 2009-03-27 10:03:59

Suze,
2 years ago I found my wife of 48 years who had died during a noon nap. Even though we had some warning it is still a major change in life. Only you know what works the best for you in dealing with the loss. The only thing that seems to be consistently helpful is to take your time and don't make unnecessary decisions until things settle down.

frank

Suze

by Skelton - 2009-03-27 11:03:09

Oh Suze, you poor love, will be thinking of you.
God bless Barbara

Hugs to you

by Gonnie - 2009-03-27 11:03:34

So sorry for the loss of your soulmate. I dread that more than anything in my life but we deal with what life throws our way. Surround yourself with supportive family & friends who want to be there for you! And remember all of us are always here to lend an ear. God's blessings to you.

My Prayers to you Suze

by tcrabtree85 - 2009-03-27 12:03:50

Suze,
I am so sorry about your loss. What a positive women you are to encourage all of us through a hard time in your life. Please know like all the others have said that we are also here to give you support, love, and encouragement as needed.
May the peace of God fill your heart through the days to come and also your family. Please keep us posted on how you are and how we can help you.
Many thoughts and prayers and love going your way,

Tammy C

Thinking of you

by petrolhead - 2009-03-28 11:03:12

I'm so sorry. You're in my thoughts. Emma xxx

You're in my prayers

by mandogrl - 2009-03-28 12:03:16

Suze, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that all the warm thoughts, prayers, and wishes help to comfort you in this troubled time. We're all keeping you close to our hearts at this time.

So sorry for your sad loss

by Hot Heart - 2009-03-29 03:03:07

I dont think we have ever chatted Suze but I want to say how sorry I am for the loss of your husband. Also to electric frank, that must have been such a shock.

God bless

I'm sorry

by bambi - 2009-03-29 12:03:55

I do know what you're going through Suze. I lost my husband 15 years ago today. We had been married 17 years. Of course you are numb. Please accept my sincerest condolences. Treat yourself gently let those who love you help you through the next months. Everyone here is already sending you love and support.
Bambi

I understand

by Brendakt54 - 2009-03-31 01:03:32

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's tough enough when we know a loved one is failing, but when they go so suddenly, it's so traumatic.

My ex husband/best friend/constant had a stroke 2 years ago at age 53. I still grieve as do our 2 grown kids. It happened so fast and we never got to say goodbye or anything.

Heartfelt prayers going from my heart to you and your family. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain.

Brenda in Georgia

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